If there is a natural pairing between observations in two groups of size n, it can make more sense to analyze them as a single sample of n differences.
gifted %>%
mutate(diff = fatheriq - motheriq) %>%
select(fatheriq, motheriq, diff)
## fatheriq motheriq diff
## 1 115 117 -2
## 2 117 113 4
## 3 115 118 -3
## 4 113 131 -18
## 5 110 109 1
## 6 113 109 4
## 7 118 119 -1
## 8 117 120 -3
## 9 111 128 -17
## 10 122 120 2
## 11 111 117 -6
## 12 112 120 -8
## 13 119 126 -7
## 14 120 114 6
## 15 114 129 -15
## 16 111 118 -7
## 17 111 115 -4
## 18 115 111 4
## 19 126 111 15
## 20 115 109 6
## 21 114 124 -10
## 22 115 122 -7
## 23 115 118 -3
## 24 112 121 -9
## 25 115 124 -9
## 26 117 118 -1
## 27 116 128 -12
## 28 114 119 -5
## 29 116 123 -7
## 30 111 117 -6
## 31 112 117 -5
## 32 115 111 4
## 33 111 101 10
## 34 119 113 6
## 35 111 121 -10
## 36 114 123 -9